Three Books With Badass Female Muslim Characters

Hello there.

Since there are very few books that feature a range of female Muslim characters, I thought I’d list some of my faves. These three books deal with various issues but the main one being marriage as it is quite a big deal for many people. Also, navigating the marriage scene as a young female Muslim can be rather difficult…so why not read all about the awkwardness of finding a partner?!

Anyhew, here are some diverse book recommendations for you to add to your to read list. You’re welcome.

The Story of Maha by Sumayya Lee

Setting: Durban and Cape Town, South Africa

This book is hilarious because it’s just completely MAD. But it’s also really heartbreaking because it’s set during apartheid and it shows how it wasn’t just blacks vs whites but also Indian people suffered too and also being a MIXED RACE Muslim girl in a society that is also inherently against dark skin etc so this book deals with a range of issues but it also makes you laugh despite the seriousness of the situation. There is a sequel too!

You can enter the Goodreads Giveaway to win a SIGNED copy of the book. Hurry, because it ends soon!

No Sex in the City by Randa Abdel Fattah

Setting: Sydney, Australia

This book is brilliant. It’s about four friends (not all of them are Muslim) and about finding love and dealing with work issues and relationship dramas and of course learning to trust each other and it’s just a great book about female friendships and dealing with adulthood. This book will make you laugh and squeal with joy (if you are a hopeless romantic like me then yes).

Sofia Khan is Not Obliged by Ayesha Malik

Setting: London, UK

This book is really funny and quite relatable. It is set in an area I’m familiar with and if you like Bridget Jones you will LOVE this book.

Also, CONNAL IS ADORBS HGKJHDJFHGKJF

Imagine meeting someone  in the biscuit aisle in Sainsbury’s???? lol.

Honestly, Sofia is mad but she is a pretty funny character, and thankfully she does see the error in her ways (eventually). Sadly, I only liked one of her friends and i didn’t really like her sister BUT this does include female friends and plenty of awkward marriage talk and relationship issues as well as family drama. Also, the author is currently working on the sequel (thankfully) because I NEED TO KNOW WHAT HAPPENS NEXT!

One of my fave lines in the book:

Guy: ‘your hijab is like a social condom’
Sofia: Yes, to protect me from socially transmitted diseases. Like you. 😹

 Books with female Muslim characters

All books feature a range of Muslim characters and are set in different locations and are laugh out loud kind of books.

I need more books featuring badass Muslim characters that don’t take crap from anyone and stand up for their beliefs and are just great characters and role models.

Can’ believe it is MAY ALREADY!

Got so many books to look forward to!

Happy Reading!

“Seeing reflections of yourself in the fiction you love is one of the most powerful forms of affirmation we have in popular culture” – Bryan Hill

 

PEACE. LOVE. BOOKS. =D

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Ramadan 2015/1436

Assalamu’alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh

السَّلاَمُ عَلَيْكُمْ وَرَحْمَةُ اللهِ وَبَرَكَاتُهُ

May the peace, mercy, and blessings of Allah be with you

I was meant to do a post on Ramadan BEFORE IT STARTED but then it started and i was lazy and SURPRISINGLY THE TIME GOES BY QUICKLY…and now it’s already the 11h fast!

okay so this post is just a brief guide as to WHY Muslims fast for my non-Muslim followers/friends etc

anyways so i’m in London atm and the fasts are about 18hrs long…BUT if you live in an area where there is no discernible night then you should fast for 12 hours coz it doesn’t make sense to fast for 22hrs…like God doesn’t want to make it HARD for you. but unfortunately there is a lot of division WITHIN the Ummah even though Ummah is meant to mean brotherhood and we are all Muslims following One God etc but culture gets in the way as well as sectarian differences.

 “Oh you who believe! Fasting is prescribed to you as it was prescribed to those before you, that you many learn piety and righteousness” (Q 2:183) (so Orthodox Christians and Jews also fast)

Why Ramadan is important to Muslims:

  • It’s one of the 5 Pillars of Islam (basics of the faith)
  • The Quran (Holy Book) was revealed during the month of Ramadan.
  • Ramadan is the month of patience, forgiveness and mercy

 What exactly do Muslims do in Ramadan?

Fasting means abstaining from food, drink and sexual relations. No you can’t drink water. The most important thing is your intention to fast for the sake of Allah…you are doing it for no one else but God. I mean sometimes you’re cooking and you accidentally eat something then you realise you’re fasting that’s okay but if you obviously sneak some food while you’re fasting thinking no one can see…well you’re not fasting for other people, you’re fasting for God and He can see!

Muslims fast from dawn to dusk (so we get up before sunrise, eat and then pray Fajr and sleep) and then we only break our fast at sunset. We also increase our remembrance of god by making zhikr (like when you use a rosary?) and we try and complete a whole Quran (as in reading/reciting the whole Quran). Not only that but Taraweeh  is a voluntary prayer after Eisha salah in Ramadan. It’s usually long and the goal is to complete the whole Quran in a month. It is not obligatory but it is just extra prayer. Prayer is not FOR God but for US. We need it.

Your good deeds are multiplied in Ramadan so it’s important to increase them, being polite and having good manners is of the utmost importance. Also controlling your anger, refrain from lying and swearing etc

Certain people are exempt from fasting like if you’re pregnant you don’t have to fast or if you’re travelling, on your period, or really sick BUT you have to make it up after Ramadan. If you are able and if you can’t fast for some reason you have to pay a certain amount of charity. God doesn’t want to make life hard for us but make everything easy and everything in moderation.

Usually kids start fasting from a young age and keep half fasts and as they get older they want to fast like everyone else and you get lots of presents or money for Eid if you keep all your fasts (more of an incentive than the spiritual reward) but when you’re older you begin to understand the beauty of Ramadan and how it really is a blessed month. so when you hit puberty that’s when you have to fast.  i think i started fasting at around 5 or 6…half fasts and then full ones. i’ve always loved Ramadan because of the atmosphere and excitement and you get extra special nice food for Iftar!

At the end of Ramadan is Eid-ul-Fitr which is basically a celebration after Ramadan. There are special Eid prayers, you wear your best clothes and you eat lots of food and spend time with family and give lots of charity and it’s a time to celebrate and thank Allah for all that he has blessed you with. People exchange gifts and it’s generally a really happy lovely time. Of course it is also important to remember those who don’t have everything we have and be grateful for what we have.

Why I love Ramadan

Growing up I always loved Ramadan. It’s always been an exciting month, preparing for the month and just the whole excitement of fasting and yeah I love food but the whole point of Ramadan is sacrifice and reflection. I actually like fasting, like it’s not so hard, I mean yeah sometimes you feel really hungry but then you just go pray and you think about why you’re doing it and then it’s okay. i usually get thirsty but it’s not so bad. Plus I am blessed enough to know that I will have food to eat when I break my fast unlike many people in the world who don’t have food. There are Muslims around the world who don’t have food yes still fast and that is so beautiful that through every difficulty their iman (faith) is still strong. And hopefully we shall be rewarded for our efforts whether it’s in this world or the akhirah (afterlife).

I’m on holiday atm so fasting isn’t that bad because i try and keep myself busy so the time goes by (since it’s a pretty long fast). I feel sorry for those who have to go to school and work because it’s hot and trying to concentrate while fasting can be hard especially if you’re thirsty. I miss spending Ramadan in South Africa with my cousins (it’s also a short fast there as it is winter) but Alhamdulilah it’s nice to be fasting in our new house.

Suhoor is when you get up to eat in the early morning- i usually eat eggs or toast or have a smoothie and drink lots of water! Iftar is when you break your fast and the last few hours of fasting is always the worst because you can smell the delicious food and you know it’s almost over but it is also a really blessed time so you should maximise your prayer and I keep distracted by reading Quran and the time goes by.

when it’s Iftar i’m like:

here’s a pic of the dhaiwaras which is basically fried dough dipped in syrup but it is delicious. We usually have it every Ramadan.

Dhaiwaras

One of my favourite things about Ramadan is that it is a collective thing; the whole Ummah is united in that we’re all fasting for God.

anyways so before Iftar it’s a very auspicious time to make dua for whatever you want/need and a fasting person’s dua always gets accepted BUT duas get accepted in different ways:

1- you get what you want

2- you get something better

3- you are saved from a calamity

4- your reward is in the hereafter (you don’t get what you asked for but you get something better in Jannah aka Heaven)

Ramadan is my favourite time of the year because not only is Shaytan (Satan) locked away, but it’s the time to focus on worshipping Allah and you don’t have to deal with worldly distractions.

I went to the Ramadan Tent yesterday. it’s a project started by SOAS students (woop woop represent). So it’s a tent and they have rows on the grass set with dates and water and some sweet things and then there is a short talk on things to do with Ramadan. then we wait for the adhan (call to prayer) and finally we can break our fast. then we go and pray in jamaat (everyone praying together) and then we come back to the tent and finally food is handed out (in foil containers) and you can share with people or have your own and just eat and talk and yesterday there was a baking stall for charity so i bought some pretzels. It’s a nice experience as anyone can come not just Muslims.

this year Buzzfeed even have a Ramadan section which is pretty cool

anyways if you are a Muslim and fasting make the most of Ramadan and remember to pray for the world…for the people in Palestine, Syria, Iraq, Somalia, Burma, Pakistan all over the world…pray for those who are oppressed…those who are sick…and pray for the Ummah.

“Every time you feel hunger, thirst or a headache while fasting remind yourself and verbally say ‘Oh Allah, this is for you’.Hussain Kamani
oh and just FYI…you can break your fast if you are dying or in pain or something…like God is ALL forgiving and merciful.

Remember me in your duas!

Hope your learnt some things about Ramadan

Till the next time!

PEACE. LOVE. BOOKS. =D